PhxP Code of Conduct
Over the last year, my involvement in social media has dropped precipitously, including here on my own property.
The tone and tenor of online discussions on Facebook, Twitter, and other forums, is increasingly negative and in my opinion, spiritually and emotionally damaging to people.
I believe in free speech, but I also believe that every right carries with it responsibility.
Christians exercising their rights have a greater responsibility to model behaviors and speech in line with Christian standards.
I have three choices in this matter…I can go with the current flow and do nothing, shut down the blog, or set community standards that reflect my convictions.
I care deeply about the people that post here and who read here…and that means acting in a way that reflects that care.
If we are to be a true “online community of faith” then it has to be a safe community where there are standards and people conduct themselves as people of faith, indeed.
Therefore, we are going to set and enforce standards for how discussions are conducted here.
Violation of the standards will lead to immediate moderation of a poster.
Period.
I have liberally “borrowed” from Christianity Today’s comment standards to set ours.
1. The only posts allowed on the “Prayer & Praise” thread are … prayer requests and praise reports. If you have something that doesn’t fit a current thread that you want to post, use “Open Blogging”.
2. Stay on topic. Once again, if you want to start a new thread on something, use “Open Blogging”.
3. You can share opinion, debate, or even argue, but you must do so with decency and grace. I can’t stand echo chambers, but neither will I tolerate threads that look like barroom brawls.
4. While you can graciously take apart someone’s perspective, you may not tear apart an individual. We debate ideas and doctrines, not the character or integrity of those who express them. We do not allow ad hominem attacks here. We do allow robust discussion and critical thought, even if I am the target. Good discussion does not require angry criticism. If you think someone’s wrong, don’t shame, just share your thoughts kindly.
5. If you do not follow the rules we will have to block you from future commenting.This is always a last resort. But no one has the “right” to comment on this blog. You have a right to comment on your own blog, not mine.
6. Don’t be a troll. Trolls come in many forms, but Wikipedia explains: “In internet slang, a troll is someone who posts inflammatory, extraneous, or off-topic messages in an online community, such as an online discussion forum, chat room or blog, with the primary intent of provoking other users into an emotional response or of otherwise disrupting normal on-topic discussion.” Trolling will result in instant moderation.
7. Please don’t feed the trolls. Arguing with a troll just distracts from the conversation, and feeds their need for validation. Ignore them when they appear. I decide who is acting like a troll.
8. This community is ecumenical. All orthodox Christians are welcome to participate and all orthodox Christian doctrines are up for discussion. You may think that your group is the only “right” one ( and you may be right), but any discussions will remember that all of us are made in the image of God and worthy of respect.
9. As a general matter, you may post content or responses to content in the blog freely, so long as the content of such post is not illegal, obscene, defamatory, threatening, infringing of intellectual property rights, invasive of privacy or otherwise injurious or objectionable. However, we reserve the absolute right to edit content. We may also determine not to post content if we determine that such content is not in the best interest of Michael Newnham, Phoenix Preacher, our contributors, or for any other reason.
10. You understand that all content posted to this blog is the sole responsibility of the individual who originally posted the content. You understand, also, that all opinions expressed by users of this site are expressed strictly in their individual capacities, and not as representatives of Michael Newnham, Phoenix Preacher, or our contributors.
The theological position of the Phoenix Preacher is detailed here.
We reserve the right to add to or modify these standards in the future.
We encourage your feedback on these standards.
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Wholly and completely agree. Well done…
Thank, Duane.
I encourage feedback on these standards…I am just the steward here, it belongs to the community.
Part of my stewardship entails setting good standards, but I want all of us to take responsibility for what we have here.
I very much like this.
We have a lot of good discussion around here but the trap we often seem to fall into is covered by #3. The debating and arguing loses a tone of respect and grace and instead turns into a tone of condescension and attack. Then when this happens, it triggers #4 as the lines start getting blurred between tearing apart the issue being debated and tearing apart the person.
And, of course when #6 (the trolling) happens, it often creates a quick pathway to failures of maintaining #3 & #4.
Michael, do you feel Christ’s hand on your shoulder this morning? i think you might as this statement of a code of conduct here just has to please Him… God keep
that said, i do miss the old night crew here that could get into it sometimes – scattered on different paths now and that is most likely according to God’s will as what we used to call interesting and entertaining heated debate doesn’t seem to happen anywhere anymore
KevinH,
Thanks.
I can’t maintain this on my own…the community here will have to self police a lot.
I want us to be the best we can be…
This community has its good days and its bad ones. We can always strive to have many more good ones.
I’m just surprised there was no special dispensation of protection for J.I. Packer, Jerry Lee Lewis, or the Minnesota Vikings? 🙂
While I haven’t commented much for a while, I read here regularly. I agree with these expectations and the consequences for violation. It is wise to publish them, and more wise to enforce them. Wisest of all is to follow them without having to be told.
Em,
The thing that bothers me that about 5% of the people that read here, comment here.
I want to take away any barriers to participation…and maybe the night crew will reassemble.
Thanks for being a true “pillar” of this community…and a real friend to me.
KevinH,
Those protections go unsaid but rigidly enforced… 🙂
fil,
I think you should write for us… but you know that. 🙂
Thanks for chiming in, my friend.
Excellent. Good word.
In the “immortal” words of E.T. “Be gooooooood”.
Thanks, Paige. 🙂
i confess that i get caught up in the thots here and forget that there is such a large community of lurkers out there – some saying ‘amen’ and some, no doubt, saying to themselves, ‘d*mmit, that’s wrong headed’ … i’m kind of glad i do because if i stop and think that it isn’t just this 5%, i’d never post my scattered, but God-fearing thots – ever… i don’t think… then again, i was never shy about taking exception to my very intelligent, very logical and almost always right late husbands declarations… maybe i have a myopia of some sort… no matter, i’m happy in my condition 🙂
that said, it would be wonderful if everyone who comes by here felt as safe as i do to share their hearts and minds – risk having them softened and, maybe even changed by their participation in the dialog …. or maybe finding joy in being understood and affirmed…
Michael,
I will try to stay within limits — but I will be watching your example the next time someone comes to the defense off Mike Kestler – 🙂
“that said, it would be wonderful if everyone who comes by here felt as safe as i do to share their hearts and minds – risk having them softened and, maybe even changed by their participation in the dialog …. or maybe finding joy in being understood and affirmed…”
That’s the goal…well said, Em.
MLD,
Let’s be blunt.
These guidelines will be harder for you and me than most.
I have to stay within the guidelines I’ve set…and resist the temptation to skewer Kestler fans.
We can do this… 🙂
And sin, seizing an opportunity through the commandment, produced in me coveting of every kind. For apart from the law sin is dead.
But I’ll be good 🙂
Maybe put a button at the top of the page or a link on top of one of the sidebars where the code of conduct can be easily referenced.
JD,
We will make some permanent links on the sidebar.
Michael,
Would an article on the Song of Solomon be off limits?
Well said, Michael, all the way until that last line. On that one, I greatly disagree.
You want a © not an @
🙂
Jean,
I can’t imagine why it would be…
I’ll fix that , Eric… 🙂
Nicely stated and long overdue. Glad to see it.
Good decision Michael!
Amin!
I think we could use some folks from other types of churches. We’ve chased away every Roman Catholic that has ever dared to post. I think we need to hear from them.
amen to Xenia’s #27
Jean mentioned writing on the Song of Solomon – the book has so many applications to real life as well as to Christ, Himself… it couldn’t be done in just one week IMNSHO
Kind of sadens me that this had to be written. But it is what it is. Well written big brother.
Thanks, Dusty…it’s a good practice to have such. 🙂
My guess is that Duane might know an RC or two that might be willing to participate…
#31 Michael
Indeed I do… including a bishop or two or three….
i have known many R.C.s – several married into the family and my mother and stepfather’s home was next door to the parish house for the cathedral in their city…
like the rest of us, they’ve been all over the map in living their lives in Christ – but the most grace and affirmation that i was ever shown in my walk came from an old R.C. priest…
for the record there was a Baptist minister (i wasn’t one) who came in close second… many souls were blessed by those two men – so far apart in doctrines and so close in showing Christ in their way of living among us
now those of you, who channel your prayers thru Mary have never been able to explain that one so it made any sense at all to me… somehow, i do believe however, that those beads do get some of us Christians focused – maybe the icons do too – dunno…
But I like being snarky! Speaking of snarky, where are you, London?! ?
Solid.
Great.
DO IT.
And be strengthened. You’ve helped so many already.