Jean’s Gospel: Who Is My Neighbor?
âAnd behold, a lawyer stood up to put him to the test, saying, âTeacher, what shall I do to inherit eternal life?â He said to him, âWhat is written in the Law? How do you read it?â And he answered, âYou shall love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your strength and with all your mind, and your neighbor as yourself.â And he said to him, âYou have answered correctly; do this, and you will live.â But he, desiring to justify himself, said to Jesus, âAnd who is my neighbor?â â (Luke 10:25-29)
The lawyer, an expert in the Jewish Law, asked Jesus â âAnd who is my neighbor?â He wanted to know if the command to âlove your neighbor as yourselfâ might exclude any people groups. Faithful discipleship would be a lot easier if we could limit the scope of our love and charity to only those people who are likely to reciprocate or at least share our language, nation, religion, race, ethnicity, etc.
But in asking this question, the lawyer revealed a serious spiritual problem: He had a fundamental misunderstanding of God. There is a sense in which God views the way we treat other people as our treatment of Him. We have many examples of this in the Bible, for example: âWhoever is generous to the poor lends to the Lordâ (Prov 19:17); âWhoever receives this child in my name receives meâ (Luke 9:48); and âFor I was hungry and you gave me food, I was thirsty and you gave me drink, I was a stranger and you welcomed me, I was naked and you clothed me, I was sick and you visited me, I was in prison and you came to me.â (Matt 25:35-36) Therefore, if we err in our understanding of who our neighbor is, we will err in our understanding of God.
So Jesus told a parable:
âJesus replied, âA man was going down from Jerusalem to Jericho, and he fell among robbers, who stripped him and beat him and departed, leaving him half dead. Now by chance a priest was going down that road, and when he saw him he passed by on the other side. So likewise a Levite, when he came to the place and saw him, passed by on the other side. But a Samaritan, as he journeyed, came to where he was, and when he saw him, he had compassion.â â (Luke 10:30-33)
A neighbor has compassion even on his enemy. He does not see a âJewâ , but a wounded man. If anything qualified the man as a neighbor, it was his wounds.
The Neighbor could have remained in heaven equal in glory to the Father, but out of compassion for His enemies: âthough he was in the form of God, did not count equality with God a thing to be grasped, but emptied himself, by taking the form of a servant, being born in the likeness of men. And being found in human form, he humbled himself by becoming obedient to the point of death, even death on a cross.â (Phil 2:6-8) God gave us the perfect Neighbor to accomplish Divine compassion for and upon us.
âHe went to him and bound up his wounds, pouring on oil and wine. Then he set him on his own animal and brought him to an inn and took care of him.â (Luke 10:34)
A neighbor is merciful to a stranger in need, sharing what he has available to help the wounded man. A neighbor helps the wounded stranger even when the strangerâs own kinsfolk ignore him.
The Neighbor, âthough he was rich, yet for your sake he became poor, so that you by his poverty might become rich.â (2 Cor 8:9) The Neighbor comes to us. The wounds we have suffered in our bondage to sin render us incapable of going to Him for healing.
The Neighbor comes to us through His Word and preachers with Divine medicine: His Gospel heals our sin sick souls and reconciles us to God; He sends the Spirit into our hearts to bear witness with our spirits that we are children of God; and not with an animal, but upon His own shoulders He lays us and carries us as our Good Shepherd who finds us when we are lost.
âAnd the next day he took out two denarii and gave them to the innkeeper, saying, âTake care of him, and whatever more you spend, I will repay you when I come back.â â (Luke 10:35)
A neighbor follows through according to the wounded manâs need. He is generous with his time and financial resources and takes the man to a place where additional suitable care is available.
The Neighbor is generous with His very life, âin that while we were still sinners, died for us.â (Rom 5:8) Yes, the Neighbor ransomed us from sin and death with His own blood and cross.
The Neighbor checks us into His inn, which we call the Church, to give us rest and safekeeping until He returns. In His Church, He appoints innkeepers, who we call pastors and priests, to continue treating us with Divine medicine to strengthen and preserve our faith in Him.
âWhich of these three, do you think, proved to be a neighbor to the man who fell among the robbers?â He said, âThe one who showed him mercy.â And Jesus said to him, âYou go, and do likewise.â â (Luke 10:36-37)
As you may have noticed, the Parable of the Good Samaritan is first and foremost a description of Jesus Christ and His Gospel. Jesus is the Neighbor par excellence. Therefore, if we want to know who our neighbor is, we should first look at Jesus. He is the Neighbor to all people, which means all people must be within the definition of a neighbor to us. Jesus, Godâs eternal Word, was incarnate of human flesh, so that He could redeem all human flesh, as it is written: âTherefore, as one trespass led to condemnation for all men, so one act of righteousness leads to justification and life for all men.â (Rom 5:18)
The love of God and the love of neighbor are inextricably connected to one another, but everything depends on Jesus Christ, our Neighbor, who first must come to us with His Gospel to give us new life and salvation through the forgiveness of sins, which is ours as a gift to be received by faith in His atoning death and resurrection. Then, as Christ continues to heal and feed us in His Church with His gifts of the Gospel and the Sacraments, He strengthens us in faith towards God and in fervent love towards our neighbors. Amen.
âWhere charity and love prevail,
there God is ever found;
Brought here together by Christâs love,
by love are we thus bound.
With grateful joy and holy fear
Godâs charity we learn;
Let us with heart and mind and soul
now love God in return.
Forgive we now each otherâs faults
as we our faults confess;
And let us love each other well
in Christian holiness.
Let strife among us be unknown,
let all contention cease;
Be Godâs the glory that we seek,
be ours Godâs holy peace.
Let us recall that in our midst
dwells Godâs begotten Son;
As members of his body joined,
we are in Christ made one.
No race or creed can love exclude,
if honored be Godâs name;
Our family embraces all
whose Father is the same.â Amen.
(Where Charity and Love Prevail, tr. Omer E. Westendorf)
But he, desiring to justify himself,<<<
This is the phrase that is the source of most loopholes people use to get out of loving their neighbor.
+ It's the law
+ Those homeless people are con artists
+ They could get a job if they really wanted one
+ I am going to take care of my (well-fed) family first
+ I pay plenty of taxes
+ Add your own excuse here
Excellent point Xenia. The human race has learned well the art of self-justification.
There are boundaries, too, yes?
When I volunteered doing event security at a homeless outreach downtown a few thanksgivings ago, we forbade anyone with weapons or doing drugs inside the perimeter. This was to protect everybody. One guy, on the meth, got belligerent. He wasn’t allowed in. Another guy was openly carrying a kitchen knife. We did bring him and his street gang plates of food, just outside the fence. I watched another guy, kind of shifty, walking around inside. I observed him stealing the coat off another person’s chair. I didn’t confront him, but when his back was turned, I put the coat back where he stole if from.
At another event, there was a guy who was eyeing the children a little too closely. He looked gay (no better way to say it). Our pastor and a couple of other volunteers went to talk to him, and he confessed struggling with being attracted to children. We didn’t kick him out, but kept a constant eye on him.
My mother, bless her heart, invited “neighbor” after neighbor to live with her on her property. Whatever happened, she ended up physically threatened and in danger, including being physically assaulted and having to get a restraining order on the last guy.
Though it’s time, at 5, to move my daughter into the 3rd room, I’ve had that extra room for a while now. Should I invite someone to live there who needs it? Sure. I could have. However, my primary responsibility is to provide for and protect my children. If I don’t, I’m “worse than the heathens” as Paul said, no? I have provided help to people from time-to-time as needed, however, including to my mother in the past (which crossed into enabling her hoarding and wasting A LOT of money, but that’s another story).
Hi Victor,
I agree with essentially everything you’ve said. Wise boundaries are certainly compatible with being neighborly.
good observations being made off this lesson – IHMHO
Excellent lesson, Jean, thank you….
And I’m in agreement with Xenia’s list of loopholes as well. I have been guilty at times of a couple of them.
But then I’m reminded of the lyrics to a favourite song…..reminding me of all that I have been given.
“There’s no one more thankful to sit at the table,
than the one who best remembers hunger’s pain.
And no heart loves greater than the one who is able
to recall a time when all it knew was shame”.
(Steven Curtis Chapman, “Remember your chains”.)
Thank you Owen. Very nice to hear from you!
Jean’s lesson asks the question, “who is my neighbor?” … today one’s neighbor might very well be a dangerous person and, in that case, wouldn’t common sense would tell us to dial 911, if that person needed their wounds tended to?
is there any lesson that tells us to bind our neighbor’s wounds even if we know we may well get shot doing so? dunno
is it really true that every man on the face of the earth is my neighbor? when or where does common sense stop and self justification kick in?
“is there any lesson that tells us to bind our neighborâs wounds even if we know we may well get shot doing so?” – Yes, it’s the story of the passion of Jesus Christ.
“is it really true that every man on the face of the earth is my neighbor?” – Yes.
âIf you love those who love you, what benefit is that to you? For even sinners love those who love them. And if you do good to those who do good to you, what benefit is that to you? For even sinners do the same. And if you lend to those from whom you expect to receive, what credit is that to you? Even sinners lend to sinners, to get back the same amount. But love your enemies, and do good, and lend, expecting nothing in return, and your reward will be great, and you will be sons of the Most High, for he is kind to the ungrateful and the evil. Be merciful, even as your Father is merciful.”
“Bless those who persecute you; bless and do not curse them. Rejoice with those who rejoice, weep with those who weep. Live in harmony with one another. Do not be haughty, but associate with the lowly. Never be wise in your own sight. Repay no one evil for evil, but give thought to do what is honorable in the sight of all. If possible, so far as it depends on you, live peaceably with all. Beloved, never avenge yourselves, but leave it to the wrath of God, for it is written, ‘Vengeance is mine, I will repay, says the Lord.’ To the contrary, ‘if your enemy is hungry, feed him; if he is thirsty, give him something to drink; for by so doing you will heap burning coals on his head.’ Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good.”
Jean, perhaps the word neighbor means something different to you or my definition is too limited – dunno – i don’t see the obligation to meet the needs of every person on the face of the earth
stepping back from the obvious: giving aid to the needy or not retaliating in kind when you are the recipient of persecution or hated… i must agree with New Victor that there has to be some discernment and some common sense, which is different than rationalizing our tendencies to be selfish, to indulge our wants over another’s needs
just turning the lesson over and examining, as much as possible, all the ramifications
“Repay no one evil for evil, but give thought to do what is honorable in the sight of all. If possible, so far as it depends on you, live peaceably with all.” amen
“i donât see the obligation to meet the needs of every person on the face of the earth”
It never really comes to this, because we all fail regularly to be neighborly to people who we cross paths with locally. So, we don’t even need to wonder “how far away” or “how many in number” because we cross on the other side of the road the neighbors who God places right in our path.
I am not authorized to blunt or soften the Law to meet our the needs of self-justification. I can only share it and let the Spirit do His work in our consciences. In connection with this Jesus said:
“For with the measure you use it will be measured back to you.”
There is not a Law in the Bible which when heard should not cause us to repent of our unbelief. To penitent hearts which believe in His Son, our Father is merciful to forgive our sins and cleanse us from all unrighteousness.
As New Victor questioned and I heartily affirmed, their is no Law against appropriate boundaries in the manner of our neighborliness. Boundaries are not only good for us, but are also good for our neighbors.
Jean
Great subject and one we’ve been discussing in my classes. Have a question for you and others in Open Blogging đ